akpap beats

Everything’s a celebration
Sun beats
Husband beats
Music beats
My heart beats
And beats
And I wonder how one look from you makes me question my whole identity
Accidental ignorance
The children love, they hope
I borrow their imagination and use it to create the future

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Another way of life

I had the perfect ‘I’m in Africa’ moment this weekend. I was swimming in a nearby stream surrounded by lush greenery while people washed their clothes at the shore and fetched water in plastic buckets from the deepest part of the stream, past the log we use as a diving board. Rays of sunshine made their way through big green leaves and stalks of bamboo. I paused and smiled because this moment is everything I love about life. I realized how happy I am to be living here. My eyes have been opened to another way of life, a life full of celebrations, putting people first, being resourceful, farming the land, and dancing to the beat.

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Anything but ordinary

palm fruit

It’s about the everyday experiences that are anything but ordinary. Spending carefree afternoons on the back of a motorbike, riding on the many roads of Odukpani L.G.A. Sitting at my favorite local bar listening in amazement to strangers and friends as they share their stories with me. Watching spectacular thunderstorms, getting lost in translation, finally being able to tell the difference between plantain and banana trees, driving the motorbike on the school field in circles for hours practicing for the dirt road, teaching someone how to use a computer, meeting with chiefs and traditional rulers, recognizing the distinct smell of palm fruit cooking.

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A year in Nigeria: Cross River State- The People’s Paradise

Another post about my life and work in Nigeria on FIU’s BizNews blog (sharing it here a bit late).

 

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A year in Nigeria: Embracing diversity

My new post for FIU’s BizNews blog has just been posted. Enjoy!

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Personal highlights from the Nigerian strike

Nigeria has been an interesting place to reside with the recent strike and protests. I have seen the resilience and optimism of Nigerians in Kaduna and continue to enjoy living and working in a country with such wonderful people. With the national and international media doing a good job of reporting all the negativity and politics, I wanted to share a few highlights of my experience being here during this time.

  • Afternoon walks with my housemate Silvester, which always turned into adventures. One day we started a bit late and were out just past the 5pm curfew when soldiers arrived in our neighborhood to enforce the government-imposed curfew. We quickly turned the corner and walked briskly back home in order to avoid having to frog jump all the way back (which was the rumored punishment for being out after curfew). We were innocently trying to find fresh produce after being shut in for several days, though it was, of course, our own fault. We came across pigs eating from a pile of trash, ducks on a roof, puppies under an old car, and people hanging out on the back roads trying to continue life with some sense of normalcy.

    Neighborhood pigs

  • I was grateful for the unexpected time at home to practice yoga and rest. I happily wiped the harmattan dust off my yoga mat twice a day to practice and connect and learn.
  • Silvester and I (and sometimes neighborhood friends/colleagues who dropped by) flipped through magazines, read books, discussed work and future aspirations, and laughed together.
  • I learned to cook! This was definitely my biggest accomplishment of the week. Since all we could find as far as produce were tomatoes and onions, I got creative and learned to make some delicious meals. I also made chapatis with wheat flour and spices. I put too much ‘pepe’ in my food, which is the result of learning to cook in Nigeria.
  • Brewing tea from the local ‘zobo’ flower (hibiscus/roselle) with fresh ginger and pineapple peels (and lots of other tea) was especially nice and very relaxing.

    Making 'zobo' (hibiscus/roselle) tea with pineapple and ginger- yum!

  • After three full days and nights without any electricity, we also ran out of water. Of course this ended up being a good thing because we discovered we have a well in our compound and had fun using it with our neighbors.

    Discovering and using the compound well with my lovely neighbors Peter & Victoria

  • The strike was sensibly put on hold for the weekend, so I took the bus into town and enjoyed a strike/’curfew lifted for a few daytime hours’ party with my incredibly hospitable expat friends. We spent the day eating, drinking, talking, and dancing in the garden.

My wonderful Kenyan housemate and colleague Silvester (in Lafia)

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Rainforest haiku

Natural beauty

Butterflies and buttress roots

Wandering, not lost

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Endless Possibilities*

*The 2011 Carnival Calabar theme.

I traveled south to Cross River State for the holidays and had an unforgettable time. It also made me rethink my idea of “Nigeria” because although I’d only made a daylong journey south by road, I felt like I was in a different world. The drive there and back allowed me to see the changing landscape of the country, both in its geography and its people. Everywhere I looked I saw beauty, diversity, color, and life.

Holiday Itinerary

December 22:

  • Traveled from Kaduna to Abuja.
  • Qualvu reunion and lunch with  Adim.
  • Swimming at the British Village.

December 23:

  • Traveled from Abuja to Calabar.

December 24:

  • Drove through a rubber plantation.
  • Visited the Efik village Akim Akim.

Christmas Eve in the Efik village Akim Akim

  • Drove through the Tinapa Resort.
  • Listened to Christmas carols at Millenium Park.
  • Danced at the Christmas Village.

December 25:

  • Helped Darshan (a VSO from India and my amazing host in Calabar) make Dal.
  • Christmas party at Jenny’s house (with VSO volunteers and friends).

December 26:

  • Went swimming at the Axari Hotel.

December 27:

  • Made a costume for the carnival.

Carnival Calabar costume

December 28:

  • Drove through an oil palm estate.
  • Picnicked at Kwa Falls.

Kwa Falls

  • Danced (and sang along) at the P Square concert.

December 29:

  • Traveled by bus and okada to Rhoko Camp in the Iko Esai community of Southeast Nigeria.
  • Settled into my cabin in the forest.
  • Went swimming in the river.

December 30:

  • Hiked the ‘nature trail’ at Rhoko Camp.
  • Saw Mangabey and Mona monkeys.

no hunting monkeys

December 31:

  • Lit my first-ever fire for cooking & tea.
  • Climbed a tree (30 meters high!) and enjoyed the view of the canopy of the rainforest.

view of the emergent layer of the rainforest (from the canopy)

  • Danced into the New Year in a cabin in the middle of the rainforest.

January 1:

  • Took a walk to admire all the different species of butterflies.
  • Did yoga and took a nap on the Mangabey ‘viewing platform’.
  • Traveled from Rhoko Camp in Iko Esai, through Ibogo and back to Calabar.

January 2:

  • Traveled from Calabar to Kaduna. Home sweet home.
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A year in Nigeria: Sannu da aiki

My latest blog post on Florida International University’s BizNews blog.

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Learning never ends

I came here knowing that things would be different than whatever I expected them to be. The place would be different than I imagined, my work would not go exactly as I planned, the people I met would surprise me, and I would be not be as I thought I am. I am learning to have an open mind, not to make assumptions, not to be judgmental, and to deal with people and situations as they are and not as I imagined they would be. I’m realizing that I need to cultivate certain skills in myself that I aspire to have, such as generosity, and that understanding what motivates people is vital. I’ve developed a curiosity about people and the world that has enriched my life immensely. I’ve developed an appreciation for how connected we are to each other and to nature. I’m learning the value of our differences as human beings. I’m realizing that giving or receiving opportunity is much more rewarding and fulfilling than giving or receiving resources. Situations are usually complex and there isn’t necessarily a single appropriate solution or path. The important thing is to learn each step of the way and to adjust and be flexible and grow. I can live happily with less material things and modern luxuries than I thought; they leave no gap in my life to be filled. Listening to people, observing situations, and experiencing each moment by being fully present has helped me to understand myself better and to enjoy each day I spend in Nigeria.

KADUNA - Liberal State

Riding a motorcycle with my coworker Ema- my favorite mode of transportation in Nigeria!

'I love you'

 

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